A Dozen Good Eggs

Sunday, May 23, 2010

adults who dont grow up

There is a person in life who is a spoiled brat.
everytime I make plans he has a tantrum because he wants his way.
and I am supposed to change everything so he can have his way.
for this reason I avoid dealing with this person as much as possible.
so as soon as he found out we were going to SunnyK he wants the kids.
the kids werent going with us but I made plans for them and they were looking
forward to them. and they have to take care of their dog. so he gets all pissy and crabby with me because I say they have to take the dog. Look buster what am I supposed to do? leave him home alone for a couple weeks?? jerk. so my mom said she would keep the dog. and he has to pick them up HERE at the house and return them to my mom in another city. which of course he is going to bitch about all the way there and back but I am not going to BE here thats why I was sending them to my moms. JERK. I am mad that I am always supposed to drop everything. I know I shouldnt do it. but to be honest its easier sometimes than dealing with his ranting and raving and he is downright abusive if I dont play his way. and I am getting darn sick and tired of it. He doesnt take the kids that often. they dont fit into his busy schedule apparently. but when he does I make a plan and he changes it. every. single. time. He says sunday at 1 to return them. So I make plans around that. and then he changes his mind and wants to return them at 10. or 11. or 4. or another day. When I come home I will not play this game any more. thats my new years resolution. I guess its a bit late for new years. but its time. I am done. I will demand a time he will return them and then not answer his calls and see him at that time. The problem with that is that Maia loves to answer the phone. will find a way to get around that though. I will not let this ass take advantage of me any more. he has been for 20 years. and I am done. call me stupid that it took me this long to learn but I just cant do it anymore.


  1. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord.

    Romans 12:17-19

    You are angry - do not take it out on him but follow this advice. It is difficult but possible. Blessings to you.

  2. It is not revenge to expect fair and equal treatment and to stand up for yourself to no longer be a doormat. I am the most peaceful person. I have never once said a bad word to the kids about their dad even though I have PLENTY of bad words for him. I encourage them to remember he is their father and know that they will come to their own conclusions in their own time. but it is not fair or right for him to get his way 100% of the time and me to have to bend over backwards to give it to him, giving up MY life in the process.

  3. It's more than being merely neutral...

    If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

    Romans 12:20-21

    Hard, I know.