There is a person in life who is a spoiled brat.
everytime I make plans he has a tantrum because he wants his way.
and I am supposed to change everything so he can have his way.
for this reason I avoid dealing with this person as much as possible.
so as soon as he found out we were going to SunnyK he wants the kids.
the kids werent going with us but I made plans for them and they were looking
forward to them. and they have to take care of their dog. so he gets all pissy and crabby with me because I say they have to take the dog. Look buster what am I supposed to do? leave him home alone for a couple weeks?? jerk. so my mom said she would keep the dog. and he has to pick them up HERE at the house and return them to my mom in another city. which of course he is going to bitch about all the way there and back but I am not going to BE here thats why I was sending them to my moms. JERK. I am mad that I am always supposed to drop everything. I know I shouldnt do it. but to be honest its easier sometimes than dealing with his ranting and raving and he is downright abusive if I dont play his way. and I am getting darn sick and tired of it. He doesnt take the kids that often. they dont fit into his busy schedule apparently. but when he does I make a plan and he changes it. every. single. time. He says sunday at 1 to return them. So I make plans around that. and then he changes his mind and wants to return them at 10. or 11. or 4. or another day. When I come home I will not play this game any more. thats my new years resolution. I guess its a bit late for new years. but its time. I am done. I will demand a time he will return them and then not answer his calls and see him at that time. The problem with that is that Maia loves to answer the phone. will find a way to get around that though. I will not let this ass take advantage of me any more. he has been for 20 years. and I am done. call me stupid that it took me this long to learn but I just cant do it anymore.